Sub Discipline 101

Submission is a conscious choice rooted in self-awareness, trust, and accountability. When it becomes driven by ego rather than awareness, it turns into a self-centered performance. Below are the top five  ways to recognize when your submission is being led by ego rather than intention.   5. You avoid your own autonomy. Submission is not the absence of agency. It does not permit you to avoid accountability or responsibility. True submission doesn’t erase the self, it enhances

Unlocking your sexual liberation can be a powerful and transformative experience that can bring many benefits to not only your sex life but your full life, overall. It allows you to explore your own desires, boundaries, and preferences in a safe and consensual way.   Let go!   Embrace your desires and fantasies without fear of judgment or criticism. Doing this will lead to a greater sense of empowerment and self-confidence, as you learn to trust and honor your own needs and w

In common culture, Dominance and submission are often reduced to a single trope: Dom/mes command and the sub obeys. Power looks aggressively one-sided. But beneath that surface, D/s relationships are not formed by passivity or chance. They are built through intentional choice on both the part of the Dominant and of the submissive. While subs are observed by the Dom/me, who takes every action and indecision into account, it is the Dom/mes who are desired by the subs. Therefor

People should pay Me for My discipline training because the skills I teach really will change their lives… oh, wait!   My authority in BDSM discipline was not built overnight, it evolved through years of studying human behavior, power dynamics, and the psychology of ritualized structure. What people often misunderstand about BDSM is that it is not only about intensity. What is it about, you ask? --- Clarity! Clear intent, clear boundaries, and clear communication. Through the